J. Willard Kisner

Refuse to Surrender: Lessons in Resilience

Helping Men Reclaim Peace, Fulfillment, and Wholeness.

Resilience coach

Are You Ready to Become the Man You’re Meant to Be?

Many men face invisible battles—feeling stuck, frustrated, and disconnected. We often wear masks of perfection, hiding our doubts and struggles. If you’ve reached a crossroads in your relationships, career, or personal fulfillment, you don’t have to face it alone.
At Resilience Coaching, I encourage men who want more than Survival, they want to move from self-pity and brokenness to peace, hope and strength.Our mission at Building Resilient Men is to guide men toward Faith, Hope, and Endurance, which equals to Resilience. I define resilience as the ability to adapt well in the face of adversity, trauma, threats or multiple sources of stress, producing profound personal growth. The purpose of life is a life of purpose. Our Mission and purpose.

Services

Tailored Coaching and Training for Every Man’s Journey

No two men’s journeys are the same. That’s why every program is uniquely designed to address your specific challenges, roadblocks, and goals.

Men’s Path to Resilient Relationships

A 6-week online intensive (Limited to 8 men).

Mens ongoing support to gain resilience 

Weekly online support and challenge group.

1:1 Coaching with Dr. Kisner

Personalized coaching sessions to help you become the man you’re meant to be.


About the Book: Refuse to Surrender: Lessons in Resilience

Dr. J. Willard Kisner’s book, Refuse to Surrender: Lessons in Resilience, is a heartfelt exploration of overcoming adversity and finding purpose. Drawing from his journey as a heart transplant recipient, a lifetime learner, and a counselor, Dr. Kisner shares transformative insights on perseverance, faith, and personal growth. Through powerful stories and practical lessons, this book inspires readers to face challenges with courage and embrace resilience as a path to fulfillment.

Meet Dr. J. Willard Kisner

With over 30 years of experience as a clinical psychologist, professor, and executive coach, Dr. Kisner brings unparalleled expertise to his coaching practice. Having worked with men individually and in groups on moving from their past and into the present. His background includes:

  • A Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology specializing in Neuropsychology and Traumatic Brain Injury.
  • Extensive work with incarcerated adolescents, “at-risk” families, and grief counseling.
  • Coaching leadership teams at organizations like Federal Express and American Century.
  • Teaching leadership and organizational development to military personnel at Fort Leavenworth.

Dr. Kisner’s mission is rooted in faith, family, and a passion for helping men transform their lives.

“Dr. Kisner helped me become the man I always knew I wanted to be.”
Scott Yarnell
Piedmont, SC
Years experience
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If you’re tired of feeling stuck or unsure of your path forward, let’s work together to create the life you deserve. Don’t let fear or doubt hold you back—take the first step toward wholeness today.

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Hear From Men Who’ve Walked This Path

Discover how others have transformed their lives through coaching with Dr. Kisner.

“Dr. Kisner helped me uncover the root of my struggles and gave me tools to rebuild my confidence. His guidance has transformed my relationships and given me hope for the future.”
John Willingham
Sarasota, FL
“I was stuck in a cycle of frustration and isolation, but the coaching sessions gave me clarity and purpose. Dr. Kisner’s compassionate approach made all the difference.”
Michael Watson
Dodge City, KS
“Joining the group program showed me that I wasn’t alone in my challenges. The support and practical insights I gained have completely changed my outlook on life.”
James Dunn
Mount Morris, IL
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