J. Willard Kisner
Refuse to Surrender: Lessons in Resilience
Helping Men Reclaim Peace, Fulfillment, and Wholeness.

Resilience coach
Are You Ready to Become the Man You’re Meant to Be?
Many men face invisible battles—feeling stuck, frustrated, and disconnected. We often wear masks of perfection, hiding our doubts and struggles. If you’ve reached a crossroads in your relationships, career, or personal fulfillment, you don’t have to face it alone.
At Resilience Coaching, I encourage men who want more than Survival, they want to move from self-pity and brokenness to peace, hope and strength.Our mission at Building Resilient Men is to guide men toward Faith, Hope, and Endurance, which equals to Resilience. I define resilience as the ability to adapt well in the face of adversity, trauma, threats or multiple sources of stress, producing profound personal growth. The purpose of life is a life of purpose. Our Mission and purpose.
Services
Tailored Coaching and Training for Every Man’s Journey
No two men’s journeys are the same. That’s why every program is uniquely designed to address your specific challenges, roadblocks, and goals.

Men’s Path to Resilient Relationships
A 6-week online intensive (Limited to 8 men).

Mens ongoing support to gain resilience
Weekly online support and challenge group.

1:1 Coaching with Dr. Kisner
Personalized coaching sessions to help you become the man you’re meant to be.

About the Book: Refuse to Surrender: Lessons in Resilience
Dr. J. Willard Kisner’s book, Refuse to Surrender: Lessons in Resilience, is a heartfelt exploration of overcoming adversity and finding purpose. Drawing from his journey as a heart transplant recipient, a lifetime learner, and a counselor, Dr. Kisner shares transformative insights on perseverance, faith, and personal growth. Through powerful stories and practical lessons, this book inspires readers to face challenges with courage and embrace resilience as a path to fulfillment.
Meet Dr. J. Willard Kisner
With over 30 years of experience as a clinical psychologist, professor, and executive coach, Dr. Kisner brings unparalleled expertise to his coaching practice. Having worked with men individually and in groups on moving from their past and into the present. His background includes:
- A Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology specializing in Neuropsychology and Traumatic Brain Injury.
- Extensive work with incarcerated adolescents, “at-risk” families, and grief counseling.
- Coaching leadership teams at organizations like Federal Express and American Century.
- Teaching leadership and organizational development to military personnel at Fort Leavenworth.
Dr. Kisner’s mission is rooted in faith, family, and a passion for helping men transform their lives.



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